Blame the victim territory. Control your emotions and good things will follow.

We actually have free speech in the US but we don't allow people to freely abuse us and will walk.

I have never worked at a job that had those kind of benefits.

Calling others names shows a total lack of self-control and disrespect towards others. It's toxic in personal relationships too. If my boss called me names I would rm -rf my hard drive and walk out immediately. I have too much self respect to deal with that.

> This is a second hand anecdote but someone commented here or on X, that basically he was on a cruise and overheard two heads of HR of 2 big Co's talking to each other about shenanigans.

I have no idea what this means.