What is the defining feature of a sugar baby relationship? And what did I say about that earlier?

I tend to disagree.

- Compile speed. Why do people care so much? Use debug for correctness and iterating your code. You're hardly going to change much between runs, and you'll get an incremental compile. Let rust-analyzer tell you if there are errors before you even try compiling. Let your CI do release optimization in its own time, who cares if CI is slow?

- The cloudflare bug was not caused by rust. Every language needs some way to say "hey this thing is invalid", and that's what happened when the list of AI tools got too long (or whatever their business issue was). Making the app panic was a design choice, not a language choice. Every language has a way to not handle errors.

- Things having unsafe {...} does not make them unreliable. On the contrary, if you run into a memory issue in a rust program, you know where to look for it. The problem in c++ was that the whole program was unsafe, and you then had no way to narrow it down. Memory safety errors are like type errors: a large class of errors that are worth checking for. If you're writing good c++, you have a linter that checks similar things anyway, and if you're disciplined, you've also upgraded warnings to errors. FWIW, I do think the marketing over-emphasizes memory management, because there are a lot of these hard learned lessons that are default in rust but optional in c++.

- Mutable shared state: make bad designs hard to write. Mutable shared state is another one of these eternal bug sources. Use channels and pass messages.

Honestly, it reads like a lot of critiques of Rust: people haven't spent enough time with it, and are not over the learning curve yet. Of course everything is cumbersome before you're used to it.

Find out if they are moving to FIX, FIXFAST, or some sort of ITCH (binary) type feed.

I've heard from a friend in the energy trading space that they're a bit behind, but your question is still a bit too broad.

What in the financial space do you want to hear about? Networks, exchanges, settlement?

It's a "partner" who uses him for his wealth. No kids, and there won't be any, because I know how those are made and you have to do certain things that are not being done.

When you talk to the guy, everything is great. Not even a sign that he has gotten hitched to this lady, or is dating, or that anything has happened at all.

Yeah it's weird. I was incredulous when I was told.