> How do you deal with a crime that isn’t reported due to things like shame?

You don't.

> Children being sent dick pics, or AI generated nudes of them being sent around schools, etc. are real problems facing real normal people.

These are relatively minor problems. Certainly not something that warrants invasive government intervention.

If parents are that worried about their kids seeing some porn, then they should either not give smartphones to them at all or install some kind of local protection software.

> too many people leave morality at the door when engaging online

If you don't like interacting with certain types of people online, then make or join a safe space that protects you from the offensive content. Don't impose your specific set of morals on the rest of us.

That's fair. If one follows the path of least resistance, you'll end up eating crap.