They aren't blameless, friends and family only should be the default even if you don't engage much. Why would they default it to a bunch of junk.

I'd agree but we're closer to getting forced into the chair than making a decision that's right for us

Yes but able bodied people shouldnt decide to use a wheelchair until their legs attrophy and become useless.

I've been very happy using cdk for interacting with aws. Much better than terraform and the like.

Or how you'll get all your data out and imported into your custom system.